How can I prepare my child for the forensic interview?
You can explain that they will be going to a safe place to talk to a trusted adult about what happened, reassure them that they are not in trouble, and encourage them to tell the truth. Please do not ask your child for details about the abuse.
What if my child is scared or doesn’t want to talk to the interviewer?
The forensic interviewer will be trained to handle sensitive situations and will not pressure the child.
How long will we be at the CAC?
You can expect to spend somewhere between 30-60 minutes meeting with the MDT, touring the CAC, developing a care plan, and asking questions. The length of a forensic interview is determined by the needs of the child, but last on average between another 30-60 minutes. Your child will be allowed to ask for breaks.
Do I need to bring anything?
No. Bring anything that may help you feel comfortable while you wait. You are welcome to bring a support person to wait with you while your child is interviewed, although you will be meeting with an advocate.
Does the CAC charge a fee?
No, the CAC does not charge a fee for your visit.
What can I say to my child after the interview?
You are safe, it is not your fault, I am not mad at you, I am proud of you for being brave, I love you. I am upset, but not with you. Do not tell your child that it is all done when the interview is over. It is possible that your child may need to be interviewed again, or may need to testify in court. Members of the MDT can help you talk with your child about going to court if needed. If your child wants to talk, listen and do not probe. Try to return to a normal routine as soon as possible.
Why didn’t my child tell me sooner?
If your child did not tell you about the abuse, or waited a long time, do not take it personally. Many children and youth delay telling anyone about abuse. Additionally, abusers mat threaten violence to family members or pets. Abusers may tell children that no one will believe them. Children may choose not to disclose abuse to protect you and the family, especially if the abuser is a parent, parent’s partner or spouse.